Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Thursday, July 21, 2016

Your Opinions Can Be Hateful

According to this great country we have the right to free speech. We have a right to our opinion and the right to express it. However morally how far can one go, knowing that it's hurtful and mean spirited.

My mom raised me with the good values of not to say something if it could cause someone pain. Many times in my life I've bit my tongue. I thought to myself.... boy, that is seriously some dumb shit. However it's not hurting anyone, and they seem to enjoy it. Things like putting and dog nose and tongue on your pretty face is annoying. Personally I think some of those pictures make people look demonic. Not funny, not silly, just plain stupid. Shoving you religious and political views down my throat every time I turn around. Shoving your life style in my face simply cause everyone needs to know how repressed you where like 100 years ago. Get over yourselves....everyone.

I guess due to the fact that I've talked with such a wide diversity of people from playing my game World of Warcraft that I've learn that expressing my feelings should not over step someone feelings. Thanks to something as silly as a game, I've met people from all over the country. I've talked with people from all over the world. A good chunk of them have landed right on my facebook friends list. Some of them are Christians, Atheist, Wiccans, Witnesses. There are Blacks, Whites, Asians, and some Indian. I have to say I have all the colors of the rainbow.... segue into...Gays, Straight, Bi, and I've pretty sure someone somewhere could be a Transgender.

Now obviously I may not share the same values, opinions, and thoughts as ALL of my friends. I however value All of there feelings. Sure we may post different memes about different political platforms, or weather Chevy is better then Ford. Lately it seems that people have this need now to express there dislike of a new game. It seems that because there are people who can't play the game smart, the rest of us have to suffer under ridicule from others. Or because parents are too busy being into themselves that they can't take the time to monitor their children.

I personally think that expressing so much hate is such a mean selfish thing to do. Maybe their inner child has died and they feel the need to kill off everyone else. To make people feel belittled cause they choose to play a game is just mean. Just because you say it's not hateful, doesn't mean that it's not. It pretty much just being a bully to go around making fun of people cause they are having fun. How would people feel if I made fun of them cause they enjoy kissing in public and posting pics about it. If I walked about saying that your hobbies and life style where stupid. How about I make fun of people to post about feeling ugly and how they need to find an other half. Maybe I should pick on people who post about distorting their face to look demonic. Maybe I should insult the people in my life who hold different values as me, simply cause it's my right to do so.

We have many rights... but honestly do we have the right to hurt others just to get a point across.

Your Opinions Can Be Hateful

According to this great country we have the right to free speech. We have a right to our opinion and the right to express it. However morally how far can one go, knowing that it's hurtful and mean spirited.

My mom raised me with the good values of not to say something if it could cause someone pain. Many times in my life I've bit my tongue. I thought to myself.... boy, that is seriously some dumb shit. However it's not hurting anyone, and they seem to enjoy it. Things like putting and dog nose and tongue on your pretty face is annoying. Personally I think some of those pictures make people look demonic. Not funny, not silly, just plain stupid. Shoving you religious and political views down my throat every time I turn around. Shoving your life style in my face simply cause everyone needs to know how repressed you where like 100 years ago. Get over yourselves....everyone.

I guess due to the fact that I've talked with such a wide diversity of people from playing my game World of Warcraft that I've learn that expressing my feelings should not over step someone feelings. Thanks to something as silly as a game, I've met people from all over the country. I've talked with people from all over the world. A good chunk of them have landed right on my facebook friends list. Some of them are Christians, Atheist, Wiccans, Witnesses. There are Blacks, Whites, Asians, and some Indian. I have to say I have all the colors of the rainbow.... segue into...Gays, Straight, Bi, and I've pretty sure someone somewhere could be a Transgender.

Now obviously I may not share the same values, opinions, and thoughts as ALL of my friends. I however value All of there feelings. Sure we may post different memes about different political platforms, or weather Chevy is better then Ford. Lately it seems that people have this need now to express there dislike of a new game. It seems that because there are people who can't play the game smart, the rest of us have to suffer under ridicule from others. Or because parents are too busy being into themselves that they can't take the time to monitor their children.

I personally think that expressing so much hate is such a mean selfish thing to do. Maybe their inner child has died and they feel the need to kill off everyone else. To make people feel belittled cause they choose to play a game is just mean. Just because you say it's not hateful, doesn't mean that it's not. It pretty much just being a bully to go around making fun of people cause they are having fun. How would people feel if I made fun of them cause they enjoy kissing in public and posting pics about it. If I walked about saying that your hobbies and life style where stupid. How about I make fun of people to post about feeling ugly and how they need to find an other half. Maybe I should pick on people who post about distorting their face to look demonic. Maybe I should insult the people in my life who hold different values as me, simply cause it's my right to do so.

We have many rights... but honestly do we have the right to hurt others just to get a point across.

Thursday, June 23, 2016

House repairs, Decorating and Skunks

What to say... I've completely moved into my new house. I wont lie, it's a big work in progress. If I can give any kind of advice, get the home warranty. On that note my AC has gone out. I've had the guys out and it's about 340.00 to replace the blower motor. Thanks to the home warranty, I'm paying 75.00.

I've gotten the paperwork signed and ready to start putting up my new fencing for the yard. It will be a great place for my son's & my dog to play. Plus when my family comes up, there kids will have a safe place too.After all, it's people that truly make a house a home. I look forward to finally having a place where my friends & family can come and relax.

Also on the to-do list is my windows getting replaces. I finally got a quote that I can work with, and they are starting the paperwork on it this morning. That should be a huge cut in electric, not mention raising the value of the home. So as it stands, all 3 majors projects are getting taken care of. It feels so good to watch your dreams come true and blossom right in front of you.

Now working patching up the walls and getting them ready to be painted. Not sure what the last contractors where thinking, but there are so many visual problems. Cracks in the walls, places where the ceiling was not tacked up right and so places completely missing paint. This week I've started patching up holes and cracks on the walls that do not have windows. No point on the window walls, they will be getting replaced soon enough. Feels good, getting my hands into the work and showing some love to this old house. I can't wait to see how it all works out.

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A few weeks ago and small family of skunks moved into his yard. Sadly the mommy had gotten hit by a car. However the little ones (3 of them) are old enough to find food in the yard. Ideally having skunks around the house is not optimal. You never know, if you scare or walk up on them. That is not a smell you want to experience. If you know anything about me, it's that I do love animals...even the stinky ones. So I've been loving seeing the little ones (from a distance) walking about and doing there thing.

Last night one of the neighbors came over with a 22 rifle. Wanted to know if he can kill the babies on his property. I knew that he didn't want them there, I know that there's a chance of running into them and scaring them. As I stood there with tears welling in my eyes he told him that he can't kill them on his property. Still worried that they may be killed, my boyfriend agreed to let me feed them in hope that they will not wonder off the property.

As much as he does not want them on his property, he loves me enough to stand for me and help me with my love of animals. He has truly shown me how much he cares and respects my opinion and my feelings. I now know that he is the only man that I could ever love and spend the rest of my life with.